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In a love relationship, your partner cannot just be with you because to recover you from hurt of the pass

By Wong Wan Jen
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Miss Lim: “Love is not difficult but it had depends on what kind of decision you make in the relationship” (Photo: Xiong Mama)
March 5,2017
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UTAR Counselling and Wellness Week was invited the founder of the center of Loving Tree, Xiong Mama and the founder of BaiDoo Training Workshop, Mr Ngoh Chee Meng to deliver the speech in the campus.
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The speech was name as “Love is difficult, no difficult”, it was held on Saturday morning from 10am to 1pm.
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(Photo: The poster of the talk)
The participants responded enthusiastically and the tickets sold out in just few days of the booth had set up in the cafeteria which located in Student Pavillion 1.
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The time of the talk was extended for 20 minutes due to the enthusiastic responds from the students.
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The students who participate to this talk were majority from the Psychology course and just a few of them were from other course.
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The way of talk was conducted as a discussion for the certain issues and both of the speakers was had the ability to play humor skills on that day.
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Xiong Mama draw the picture to show the students about the life of experience of an individual since the people was born until the person end up the life.
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“Every single of us were came to this world alone, I can’t believe about you was come together with other people for this world”, said Xiong Mama.
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Xiong Mama: “The similar things for the people who was born form the beginning time and the person who were going to end up his or her life was both of them were as an individual”.
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However, we can found that the people who was going to end up the life actually different with the people who willing to end up the life.
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“In a relationship, the relationship between men and women need to run through”, Xiong Mama added on.
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Miss Lim said “the real honeymoon is only a short three months or even shorter for the couples who were just confirm their relationship”.
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“The people who can’t release themselves from the past will choose to return to those of the “sweet memories” even they had started a new relationship with other people”, said Xiong Mama.
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Xiong Mama: “the people in the new relationship will become replacement of the person who acted as part of the character in the “sweet memories”.
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Mr Ngoh Chee Meng who is also the counselor and lecturer for New Era University College yet he also the special guest for the Aifm radio station.
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Mr Ngoh said “when a girl ask the question from the boy, she actually able to get the answer by herself and not really wish to get the answer from the boy but she actually just want to say something and get the confirmation from the boy”.
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“Girl may ask the boy is it this dress suitable for her and even ask the boy whether she getting fat or not” said Mr Ngoh.
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Mr Ngoh further explain and said “the boy will give the answer based on the question and solve his girlfriend problems very straight forward”.
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“The boy is actually wants to end up the question which keep asking by the girl and show their manpower for those who as the boyfriend for other people”, said Mr Ngoh.
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He said, “girls can speaking out 30 million words in one day compared with the boys who can only said 20 words or even less then that”.
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“The girl like to use the emotional though to settle the problems but boys are usually solving problems in rational”, said Mr Ngoh.
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The talk was conducted more than 3 hours but due to the humor of both of the speakers, the students were not felt bored on the talk.
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(Photo: Mr Ngoh Chee Meng)
(Photo: The photos of Xiong Mama and Mr Ngoh Chee Meng together with UTAR counselors)